I got a bit derailed last time. The question my professor posted on my most recent post was “what does this have to do with student experience outside of class?” Well, to be honest, not much. I had in mind that teaching a book like Lord of the Flies would give me a perfect lead-in to discuss gangs in class, which connects it to the student experience outside of class from my first few posts. So it made sense in my head as a topic, but it didn’t fit with my chronology, having departed from the topic of gangs. For a moment, this blog turned into my “thoughts about education” and lost the focus of 90 vs. 1350 minutes. I apologize for the digression. (Although I still think it’s useful and hope it was edifying.)
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I’m going to cover one of the other topics I promised to address in my first blog: child abuse. This is a tragic topic, but one that I want to be prepared for when I become a teacher. I’ll share with you a bit of information that I received a few years ago that gave me great relief.
If a student is being abused, it is NOT your responsibility to save that child.
Let me clarify, and I’ll start by identifying my source.
As part of the North Carolina Teaching Fellows Program, I spent a week as a guest of Cleveland County Schools. I toured schools, met administrators, observed classes, even got a sneak peek at the bus garage. One of our meetings was with a school counselor. The counselor explained to us where the responsibilities of a teach end and the responsibilities of a counselor begin. I was relieved to hear what she had to say.
Teachers are in a unique position because they interact with students most frequently in the school setting, and stand the most chance of finding out if something is wrong at home. And they are legally obligated to report any whisperings they have of domestic violence. It’s a misdemeanor if a teacher does NOT report it. However, that is where the teacher obligation ends.
I want to be careful as I say that. That doesn’t mean involvement ends, but the legal steps that need to be taken to place the child in a safe environment are not the responsibility of the teacher.
Now, the teacher will have some responsibility in reporting their findings, and may have to remain involved if there are subsequent legal proceedings. Just a few tips:
- Document everything. Every conversation with the student, every conversation with the parent. For the sake of the child and yourself, you need a paper trail that will CYA (Cover Your “Butt”
in the case of legal proceedings. - Bring someone else in on it. Now, don’t go gossiping to other teachers, but confide in a school counselor or administrator so that you have some accountability with a person of authority. It’s likely they will be able to assist you and the child in confirming the suspicion, getting more information, and then they will have the necessary background to get the student the help they need.
- Keep in touch with the child. Since the proceedings to find a safe home for the child will not end with you, it’s imperative that you remain a trusted adult in their lives. My own speculation tells me that a child who has lived with abuse into their high school years has learned to cope. While it may be a great relief to be removed from that situation, it must be traumatic as well. Demonstrate understanding as the student copes with the results of the necessary changes. Don’t compromise your expectations, but be supportive.
I found this PowerPoint to be a helpful starting place in thinking about this issue. I also found a report from the National Education Association that goes into great detail about the process of reporting child abuse and the process from there on out.
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Let me just say that, even though the class for which this blog was assigned is coming to an end, I fully intend to continue to use the blog as a place to write about my teaching experiences, reflect on assignments, student experiences, and anything else that will affect the 90 minutes I have with my students.
Let me leave you with a little math: 90 minutes x 180 days = 16,200 minutes
That’s 16,200 minutes that we teachers have to make a difference in our students’ lives. The challenge is before us. Let’s go!











